Let's talk about something I see all the time with the singles I work with. And honestly? Something I lived for years myself. You say you want love. You mean it. You're dating, you're putting yourself out there, and then someone great comes along. They're kind. They're consistent. They actually show up. And suddenly, something in you starts looking for[...]
They seem so into you. But right when things start to get deeper, you start to feel the distance. You try to bring that closeness back, but it feels like you’re hitting a wall. Then, right when you’re ready to let go… they reappear like nothing happened. If this hot-and-cold relationship feels painfully familiar, you might be dating an avoidant part[...]
You know the feeling. You've been on a few dates with someone, and they've been good. The conversation flowed, you laughed, and you drove home thinking, okay, this could really be something. And then… nothing. It's not that anything went wrong or that it's over. It's just stuck. You're still texting and still seeing each other, but it isn't going anywher[...]
I'll say this upfront because I think it matters: I am a HUGE advocate for online dating. I met my husband online. They work. I'm proof. But I also get the idea of online dating app fatigue. I hear you... swiping until your thumb goes numb doesn't feel like romance. But here's what I've learned coaching singles for years: online dating and in-person conne[...]